It’s Sunday morning. I’ve woken feeling sluggish and still very tired but as its 9.45am I should really get up. Everything aches, it honestly feels as though I have done a full Pilates session in my sleep! That odd niggle in my knee is now a reoccurring pain that prevents me from kneeling down and getting up and hinders my walking. The sciatica I had when I was heavily pregnant has reared its head and is very painful, stopping me from doing a lot of things I wish I could. Moan, moan, moan…..sigh.
Two weeks ago I decided to leave the Slimming World group that I had been part of to follow a more natural diet (but really it was because I missed avocados). I had convinced myself that I wasn’t losing enough weight and following a diet combining more natural foods such as avacados, nuts, hummus etc etc would help me shed a lot more. It didn’t.
By the time my CPN had been to see me a week later I had put on 6lb and was feeling more miserable. My weight loss, or lack of, is a trigger for me and I could feel a low creeping up behind me. How could I have put on such an amount of weight in such a short period of time when I was eating so healthily? Except I wasn’t, if I’m honest I wasn’t eating healthily at all, I was binge eating crap. Biscuits, cakes, chocolate, white bread, chocolate spread, crisps then the healthy foods. I would eat it all in secret then feel terrible and disgusting and embarrassed. No one knew how bad it had got because I told no one.
It wasn’t until I’d got on the scales and noticed some new, sore, stretch marks on my tummy that realised I had to change. I had to change my life long negative eating habits, for good this time. I miss chasing and running about with my son. I want to be able to tie my shoe laces without great discomfort, I don’t want to out of breath walking up the stairs of our flat anymore, I don’t want to be overweight anymore. I want to be happy with what I see when I look in the mirror. I want to be healthy. I want to be a good role model for my son.
My brother has recently lost 8lb in his first week at Slimming World and that was the kick up the bum I needed. He was so happy. I wanted that feeling. So I text my consultant and explained that I felt like a failure but wanted to come back and she was wonderful about it. So I plan to return this Thursday.
Ive planned my meals for the next 7 days using the Slimming World magazine online and have ordered our shopping online accordingly. I’m feeling determined. Wish me luck.